My prayers and hopes have deep roots in reality...
Is your own reality one where God's love enables you to experience love and to love others, or that of a jaded & cynical heart?
It’s possible to love a human being if you don’t know them too well. Charles Bukowski
So this is my prayer: that your love will flourish and that you will not only love much but well. Learn to love appropriately. You need to use your head and test your feelings so that your love is sincere and intelligent, not sentimental gush. Live a lover's life, circumspect and exemplary, a life Jesus will be proud of: bountiful in fruits from the soul, making Jesus Christ attractive to all, getting everyone involved in the glory and praise of God.